Thursday, July 21, 2011

Leaving Neverland

Well peeps, it's real.

I am officially a down-town-walkin', lunch-break-takin', computer-systems-learnin', water-cooler-chattin', cubicle-sittin', health-benefits-gettin', commutin', post-graduate workin' woman! (If you followed that, WOW, I am impressed)

I am very happy to have some direction in my life and am SOOOOO grateful to have a job. But for the sake of being honest, I will tell you I have some mixed emotions about this whole "working" business. I mean, giving up the days of gettin' my swim on at the pool whenever I want was a big blow. Bigger than I was prepared for. For some self-expression, I'm gonna take you through the annals of my mind and tell you why I'm SO excited to have this job as well as tell you what I miss about the pre-job simple life.

Why my job is awesome:

  • I am still working with kids the age I love, in the field of education, without having to prepare lessons for HOURS every night. (I really do want to teach later on, but that whole lesson-planning thing flat-out bites).

  • I'm doing something worthwhile. The kids I get to work with are all in need of some intervention. They have all dropped out of high school for various reasons and the program I work for gives them the chance to get their diploma and get their lives back on track. I have already been SO inspired by some of their stories.

  • The people in my office are awesome. awesome and quirky. Just the way I like 'em.

  • We had an office birthday party today in the breakroom. with cake. by the water cooler. I felt like I was watching it happen on TV.

  • I work down-town and it makes me feel real classy. I can take my sack lunch and go eat in Gallivan center plaza, walking amongst the business men in their collared shirts and ties, and I think to myself..."Whoa...I am one of you."

  • I have two, count them TWO, screens for my computer. Sometimes I just sit for a second and watch the mouse move back and forth between the two screens because it blows my mind.

  • I get a salary. Weird. I can FINALLY start paying back those student loans and maaaaaybe even eventuallyyyyyy get a new car. WHAT?! No! Never! Gladice I would never!

  • Later on, I am told I will have a lot of flexibility with the job. I will probably even be able to work from home two days a week. Yessss

  • Everyone that works for this awesome company is there because they genuinely want the kids to succeed. That is their top priority. It's really refreshing to see humanity at work.

Things I miss about the simple life:

  • As previously stated, going to the pool whenever I want.

  • My morning routine of sleeping in, reading, working out, and thinking, "So...what do I want to do with myself today?!"

  • The choice to go on a morning hike (although this summer I never, not once, took advantage of this blessing despite my many failed attempts). But still, having the choice was nice.

  • Not having a bed time. When you have the morning routine stated above, why do you need to be well-rested? I'll tell you. You don't. It's awesome.

  • Not only do I work 8 hours each day, but I drive anywhere from 2-3 because I am currently living in Provo, working in downtown Salt Lake. The commute sometimes is only an hour but SOMETIMES it's not, which makes me want to roll all my windows up so no one can hear me and scream at the top of my lungs. But I don't do that, because it's too hot to roll the windows up and Gladice doesn't have air conditioning.

  • I can't just go on vacation whenever I want anymore. I have a specified number of "Personal Time Off" days (foreign concept) and have to request them well in advance. Sadly, when you first start a job, you have even less freedom, which means that of all the following activities happening within the next two months (a friend's wedding, my graduation, Havasupai with friends, camping trip also with friends, Lake Powell with the fam, California with my girls, Lagoon with my big family, Seven Peaks with my sisters, and so on and so on) I can't do them all. In fact, I can't do most of them. Whaaaaaaaaa.....?

Looking at this list now that I've compiled it, I realize that I sound more like a child than a 26-year old. But alas, I am young at heart and will always pine for the freedom I once had. Is that selfish?

BUTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTT with that said, I have to say the pro's outweigh the con's. As much as I hate to admit it, it's time to be an adult. And it actually feels kind of good. Being productive, earning a living, it really feels...refreshing. All this time, my dad was right. Who woulda thought?

So now that you have seen into the deep caverns of my mind, I will tell you how grateful I am to have this job. I will love what I will be doing each day. There are some sacrifices but when you put it into perspective, what meaningful, enriched life was spent by the side of a pool?


  1. ANGIE! i wanna follow you but there is no where to click to follow. what in the world is this?

    please tell me you remember me. i was in your favoritest EFY group last year. :)

  2. me=blog stalker. Love you Ang! I want to hear all about your life--can we hang out soon?

  3. Ang! I love to read your blog. If this teaching thing doesn't work out, maybe you could do something with writing? Although you probably do a lot with writing anyway....
    You are an amazing person. I wish I had a brother your age that was just as amazing so he could marry you so you could be my sister in law! (That's not creepy/stalker-ish is it?)
    ~Sista Wendy

  4. Thanks for this post I think I really needed to hear it. I'm in the process of finding a real job and have already begun the battle with my desire to have FREEDOM to do what I want when I want vs. my desire to do what I have been working so hard through school to do, help people... although I will miss the freedom (I'm still freaked out) I think having a real job is a good thing. Good luck!

  5. angie. i did NOT know you had a blog. now i feel like we can be even more connected. you know, since i hardly see you anymore.